Why do women always think I want to fuck them?
Trust me: I don’t. This whole ‘fucking’ thing is not where I’m at. I’m not into this thing where you imagine you are ‘giving’ me your pussy and, for some reason, I should feel really grateful.
There are some women who use the expression ‘giving up the pussy’. In other words, their pussy is currency and part of some bargaining process.
And these women seem to be suggesting that if I am helpful or generous then, as part of the bargain, they will open their legs and allow me to stick my penis in their vagina.
Hmm ... not very sexy! I do not need to stick my penis into your vagina.
I am rich. I am a wealth of ideas, a wealth of encouragement, a wealth of knowledge, and I am even rich with love. I have a lot of love in my heart. Love. Not sex.
I don’t need to have sex with you. I don’t view you as a sex object.
People say I give away too much but, shocking though it may be, I will give you some of my time, and I ask for nothing in return. I certainly don’t need to put my penis in your vagina.
You have nothing I need. You have something I want, but I definitely don’t need it. You don’t need to give it up to me because I don’t need it.
Other men might make you feel like a sex object but, as I don’t need to fuck you, there’s no need for you to feel like a sex object in my presence.
I’d like to treat you as a sex object. I’d like to lick your pussy for hours. But I don’t need to. I am not desperate to do it. And maybe you like a guy to make you feel wanted and make you feel special but, I’m sorry, that won’t be me. I just don’t need it that badly.
Not because I have lots of trim somewhere else. I just don’t want you imagining that you are giving me something and I should be grateful for it.
If we make love, you won’t be giving me anything. If we can’t share the experience, there was no point. I don’t arrive at a party empty-handed. I will be bringing something to the party and, hopefully, you will too. But, believe me, there will be no process whereby you are ‘giving’ me anything.
In fact, as some women bring very little to the party, they do little ‘giving’ or ‘giving up’, just a bit of ‘opening’ and, for some bizarre reason, because their pussies are gold-plated, I should be grateful.
You may be the object of my arousal, but I don’t require you to make some huge sacrifice on my behalf. If you wish to make love, that would be nice: end of story.
(Many thanks to Brenda Basque for the lovely image. Though many might, I do not view her as a sex object!)
6 comments:
And this is why I shall forever love you!
-Ty
Sadly, the place where sex becomes 'currency and part of some bargaining process' is often within a marriage.... after a time when it has become something that you don't really feel like doing any more, but you just do it to keep the other person happy or quiet or whatever..
And I agree, If you can’t share the experience, then there is no point. That is the conclusion I came to some years ago.
Great post!
I think this comes from being conditioned as a young girl, you are told that you and(your body) are precious and that if a man wants you he should work for it i.e. you are a prize...therefore some where along the line we have been made to think that when we have sex with a man after months of waiting we are giving him a prize and by making him wait he will view you as a prize, treasure and cherish you....
Lol sadly this is often not the case and some men like the waiting game/chase. And will view you no differently to a woman that "gave up the goods" on the first night.
If only women stopped viewing sex as something we do to shut men up and start to be more selfish, let go of our insecurities and fears ;0
Ehl: thank you, baby!
Tess: you know where I'm coming from; don't use sex as a weapon or a currency, or you'll just end-up behaving like a hooker!
IceQueen: a momentous day! I don't think we've ever agreed on anything! I look forward to the day when certain people (no names mentioned) let go of their insecurities and fears!
Yeppers - Giving, Selling, implies a value... I can't stand to hear "giving it up" when a wo/man says it means a transaction is taking place. Nice blog - I'm glad you tagged me - I didn't know you were blogging over here.
Hey NickyJett! Thanks for swinging by. If there is a 'transaction', surely that makes it prostitution? Weird!
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